"All rise"

[iwantittowork]

Man FIB, I feel for you, and I am in the same boat in MA..

Men/dads....get f'd here.

It really and truly does feel this way, and I wish it was not. I have tried with all my strength to think about the effort and money that is being spent as providing a home for my d9, rather than a free home for stbxw. That has taken an extreme amount of strength, and determination to stay in front of, as to not turn it into resentment and anger.

I hope you can do the same in the face of this utter crap..

Not sure why she would do this.

Who knows, and most likely you'll never know. I stopped trying to figure out what stbxw was doing. It's just a waste of your time and energy at this point trying to figure out 'why'

Put it this way, her mind and thought processes are so different than yours right now, you can't think enough like her to understand what her motives are, so best to not think at all about it.