Did you go through a MLC or was it your S? It seems you know exactly what is going on. I wish I would have known this was a MLC in the beginning but I didn't. Thought it was just his depression and he would get help and come home.
Now I'm in such a deep depression, never was I this sad for this long. I'm having panic attacks that keep me from going out and GAL, I'm so down and out that I don't even want to do things around the house. Can't wait for the weekend to come so I don't have to work then our D13 is with H and all I do is cry because I'm all alone and thinking all of the time.
Do they go from loving you to hating you or how does this work? One minute he is fine and the next he makes no contact at all except to our D13.
If he wants to date someone then why not date your spouse? None of this is making sense to me right now
If H is hurting why won't he let me or someone help him? He knows I'm standing for our M. Do I agree with him and say that I think he is right for us not to date?