My h had an affair 3 yrs ago and we were separated for 1 yr, he ended th a and came back home. We were back together for the past 2 yrs but I found out he was seeing the ow again and i told him to leave. he is living at his mothers and she loves it because she is very codependent and her husband just died 4 mos. ago. They're relationship is very dysfunctional his mother never let him go she would call him 3 times a day. it was like they were married to each other. she would'nt let him move more than 2 miles away from her.
I am so sad that he is gone again. We have been together for 30 yrs. and we have a 16 yr old son. I feel like im competing with 2 woman now for him. I am trying not to call him or show any anger. I dont have any support system either. My family all turned against me. If I didnt have God and my son I would have no one.
