Needy gets wearing after a while. It's not as much fun as time goes on.
Needy is also very unattractive. It's one of the reasons why we all say do not pursue, chase, cry, plead, etc. It is one thing when they are both pursuing. But one of them will stop and look at the other at some point.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement