in the end TD I don't want you to be an a$$hole or a prick, you can smile, you can nod, just don't get brought down to her level, in fact you have to project that your level is a notch higher than hers, in fact that's where it is but you've been trying to match her at her level, this isn't a game of one-upmanship (if that's even a word), in the end you have to be better because that's your goal in life, always to be better.
This is her loss, her mistake, let her deal with it.
