So, as mentioned I had to instruct my L to issue a court order for my H to disclose his income etc. I feel really cr**ppy about doing it as I really didnt want to have to go that route, but I have had no choice. I have repeatedly asked my H and being my H, who is very stubborn, he has declined.

My L has advised that I send an email along the following line, some input or advise would be greatly appreciated.

'in order to consider any financial proposals I have been advised that we require full disclosure of income from you. As you have again declined to provide this required information, I have had no choice but to follow my L advice and Form .... has been issued. A court order will be issued to obtain this information from you.

I realise that you wished to pursue the route of mediation however this is not my choice. In any case, this information would have been required in mediation as well.'

So any thoughts from all you would be great!!


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D final 13.05.2010
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