Those two dude were giving you sage advice. I feel exactly how you do and experienced the birthday thing and thought the exact thing for my 10 year old and when she asked what was the matter i thought are you insane , you know exactly whats the matter if you had any heart at all- I have been going thorough this for 3 months and when you detach, it helps you and keeps her curious.
`Stop torturing yourself about what she is doing , that will drive you nuts and gives her power. I used to try and invision her with an OM so that if does happen i will be desensitized but that is not a good strategy. The best is to focus on yourself and children. I went on a trip with my kids for the march break and we had a blast and she called every day and had a meltdown towards the end of the week because she felt left out.
Hang in there man! Time is the doctor
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