Number 8's Revelations, Mistakes, and New Methods

[flowmom]

Why do you need info from him? Why not just say that you intend to contest any divorce proceedings and say that you don't want to discuss it any further?

Talking about it puts him in a comfort zone about the whole thing. He can make it real for himself by talking about it with you and your kind reaction helping him to feel strong in his choice.

I don't know... hope you get other opinions about this because I may be on the wrong track here.