I had a very disturbing morning when I picked up the kids from my house. My H had put away all our wedding pics that were in our bedroom. And the bedroom was very clean. I had the very strong feeling that he had someone in our bed with him last night. I also found out that the kids had stayed the night at friends, so he didn't have them last night )-: I asked him if he had thought anymore about sharing the house, which was best for the kids. And he said "It's not best for me"!!!! Again, only thinking of himself. I didn't react, that is when I left. I was so close to screaming at him.

I was on the verge of freaking out, but I didn't. I left with the kids as soon as I could and went straight to my friends house (where I have been staying). I had my melt down there. I'm ok now, and I'm around people who love anc care for me.

I've decided I'm taking my house back. My H has said that I can have it, and that is just what I'm going to do. He want's to ruin his life and his family that's going to be on him. I'm going to keep as much of mine and my kids life as possible. And with what he will have to pay me, I will be able to afford the house. And I have lots of family and friend that will help me with the upkeep.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10