Husband left me 3 months pregnant...

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Babydoll - how are you? I hope you are taking care and looking after yourself. Yesterday I was pretty down in the dumps, being the weekend and all and missing my H, and a friend came over and we started sorting through baby clothes. It was heaps of fun and I laughed and smiled. What a relief from the hard work of trying to 'save' my M. I realised afterwards I had more strength because of the good time I'd just had. Anyway, I know you know this, cos you're a smart one, but I just wanted to share...

Also, no sitch is the same but I have found mb28's thread, How Do I Expose The Affair, full of great advice if you wanna find it and take a peek.

I just read this and am posting it cos it reassured me this morning and reminded me not to give up because of the WORDS they are saying:


Today - by Allen A to mb28

"mb28 I think we need to remember that your H is wayward right now and what he SAYS ins't worth anything...

I think we need to understand the feelings he's trying to convey

"I'm done" = I feel hopeless
"We just need to move on" = I am emotionally exhausted
"Divorce is the only answer" = I am frustrated beyond measure

So, don't take him at his word, he's trying to tell you how he's feeling right now...

Don't believe a word of it at face value.

I fought an affair in my home for three years off and on... do you know how many time's I heard "I am done" or "It's over"... ?

Well, that all started 3.5 years ago and she's sitting in the next room from me reading a book. Not a pair of socks has left the relationship as of yet and she's planning on expanding her garden in our back yard.

You can't take what they say at face value. When someone is wayward their emotions are in flux and those FEELINGS are all that matters to them... and they are clumsy at expressing those feelings and end up scaring, confusing, and hurting people.

Do NOT take the words seriously."