And I would say that maybe THESE are only the ones you know about...
My question is.... What is wrong with YOU that you don't show him some real backbone? Why do you continue to put up with this? Are you ADDICTED to pain and suffering?
I also noticed that in the 1984 affair that you said you let him go and he came begging back in 28 days.. Doesn't THAT tell you something?
So now you are going to expose this most recent one to the OW's husband?
Too little too late is what I say...
Here is my take.. I think you need to do the biggest 180 of your life here...
Get a lawyer. File for divorce. Get whatever your lawyer can get for you. (call it pain and suffering repayment)AND whether you "feel" it or not, I think you should make your husband think that he has lost you forever and ever. Fake it if you have to. Read all you can about the things a WAW says and then copy and say all of those things.......
TOTAL 180. Have him served. Get tough...
You have tried this other approach which hasn't really worked. (which I could have told you wouldn't but women have a hard time really believing a tough approach works far far better and it gets tiring to keep telling women that and they still just can't do it and keep listening to those who tell them to "hang in there)
That's it. That is what I think. Will it bring him around?
