Fast track to her divorcing me

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Yeah I realized it will still take time.

I actually have gone NC. She is the one that contacts me every two weeks or so. Hell she called me again this AM to borrow a ladder for her neighbor.

Sometimes I think she is just checking in on me to make sure Im still kicking LOL.

There is one fly in the ointment to my NC. We are both co-signers on my Son's mortgage. Mind you she is living there and paying his mortgage for him currently.

I have to stay on her good side. Why? Because she may buy his house outright. That means that if I play my cards right I will no longer be glued to my Son's $90k home loan.

And that my friend is something I defenitly would like to see happen. It's times like this that I am reminded that marriages are more than just love and sex. And you have to keep money issues seperate for your own protection and keep your emotions out of it.

I try to be friendly to her when we do interact but I keep thinking Detachment, Detachment, Detachment. It's the only thing that really works.