I don't think H should expect a friendly D chat. I want to hear what the lawyer told him, but I'm also going to express again that I'm not interested in a D. In other words, he should be fully informed--if he is not already--of my intent to contest the D.
I will be gracious and kind, just as my lovely southern mother and grandmother taught me. However, I will not be helpful or emotionally supportive.
flowmom, what would you suggest I do to NOT give him emotional support to feel strong enough to D me? Others, feel free to respond as well.
