I proud of you Lea for standing up for the steps you have taken and the dedication to your marriage. I personally don't see pride in what you are doing. I see a woman who loves and cherishes her H, her family and is willing to sacrifice to keep what matters most. If we all took the stance of willingness to die to ourselves for our marriage, our family and our GOD, divorce wouldn't be so common place. No matter the turnout, you will be able to hold your head high that you gave it all.
If we examine our marriages, we will probably see that the WAS has shown signs of self centered and selfishness before and the LBS has been the one willing to sacrifice all. This is not 100% of the time, but I believe in true WAS it is usually the case.
