BH, There is nothing I can add to your thread that hasn't already been said. I chose to stand for many reasons, but one of the main ones was for my children. I didn't want to just give up until I was definately sure that I was done. In hindsight I don't regret my choice, just some of the ways I handled some of the situations and my emotions. Would I ever stand again? Hell no! Once bitten, twice shy
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.