I'm wondering just how much self-righteousness and "outrage" will be exhibited by your Mrs.
Very interested in this, Kimmie.
Over the phone, she tried to act as if she didn't know what was I talking about. Then, I told her "Stop. Don't even bother lying. I know" She kept quiet for the rest of the call.
But surely by know, she'll be outraged that I read her emails (she only suspects this), contacted her family, took the money, etc At least that's what I'm expecting her to throw my way.
Anywho, I won't have a conversation with her or apologise, that's definite.
But I'd like to understand how you guys have dealt with these things: Privacy ( I feel a bit guilty of going through my wife's emails), also there's this thing about if it should be ME letting OM W about the affair, etc
Right now, the only way I've come to terms with this is that I've done all of this for the right reasons. Not to deceive anyone. Unlike my W and OM.
But interested to know how you guys have dealt with this.
Let's see, she will be outraged that you read her emails or... you should be outraged that she is having an affair for quite some time under your nose
Let's put those on a scale and see which one has more weight.
