Exactly, its right out of DR, the words are not an accurate representation of the truth.
The stereotype of this is the female here :
HUSBAND : Are you ok?
WIFE : I'm FINE... leave me alone.
HUSBAND : You don't sound fine...
WIFE : I SAID I'm FINE... go AWAY
Now, you don't need a PhD in psychology to know this woman is NOT FINE... right?
Same with your husband... he says "I'm Done" he's NOT meaning I'm Done.. you need to focus on what he's wanting to communicate, which is how he FEELS...
His FEELINGS are at the forefront of his life right now, they are OVERWHELMING HIM.. addictions to this, they heighten your emotions and make them difficult to manage...
So, he's feeling bad... but SO are YOU
So you need to warn him that his FEELINGS although painful, are NOT the only thing int eh world right now that needs attention.
