You are NOT crazy...what is happening is that you are coming out from under the spell of living with a person who either has a PD or PD tendencies. Once free from the daily effects; you start to see a little clearer and notice how crazy you USED to be.
Just keep this in mind from MC. In understand you can have a good convo every once in a while.
Tell me if this sounds familiar:
H/W acts a way you think WTF? (like A and then A again) You ask yourself WTF was that? You start to think maybe something's facked up here. Maybe I should really pay attention to my feelings. H/W starts to act normal again. Oh maybe it's me whose crazy. No I don't think so. Oh well He/she is fine now maybe it was just one of those things that will go away.
I have been on this merry-go-round.
Our coping mechanism is to overlook the truth.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am