Thank you everyone. What you guys wrote about his words and his feeling made me look at it in a whole new way. I guess my problem has been that when he does say that stuff, like "I'm done" I take it to heart and as truth. I agree on having something constructive to say for when a convo happens.
I'm going to get the kids today, and it's going to be a nice day outside. So I will be doing something fun.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10