Thank you everyone. What you guys wrote about his words and his feeling made me look at it in a whole new way. I guess my problem has been that when he does say that stuff, like "I'm done" I take it to heart and as truth. I agree on having something constructive to say for when a convo happens.

I'm going to get the kids today, and it's going to be a nice day outside. So I will be doing something fun.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10