CW, I have no useful advice, except to let your lawyer handle the details.
Your husband seems to think that he gets his divorce, but nothing changes???!!!
Yeah, right..EVERYTHING changes when a marriage is split due to divorce. I cannot say I know from personal experience, but I've seen so many relationships where the one who files thinks nothing will change, but it DOES..and it takes the filer by surprise.
Oh, and the divorced guy who's chasing you...tell him to take a hike, and don't be nice about it, either...he KNOWS you're still married, but has no shame, it seems. Do what you want, but I've gotten testy/angry with people who tried that with me.
Try to have a good weekend in spite of everything that's going on.
I'm at home, husband's doing well. Son is doing fine, as usual.
Have a good one.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
