Don't worry about his anniversaries. Worry about yours. Make plans for just you and S and if out of the blue he wants to see you or S he has to follow your plans.
You've allowed him to string you around for at least a year and it sounds like a lot longer.
Filing for D is just another step. Deep down, do you think he'll change anything on his own?
But also don't file in hopes of making him change. Because the end result is a D.
I don't really want to D either. But a D is better than holding on to someone who has convinced herself that she doesn't love me. I had a great time this week and I'm having a great time with my girls right now.
If this is how my life is going to be, it's pretty good.
Do you want to wait for someone who can't commit to you?
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
