robx this crap is hard as he!!. I wan't to argue back just like you say, but all the advice we get on here says not to. I get the impression we're supposed to treat the WAW with kid gloves. I don't wan't to sit there and take the blame for something that isn't all my fault.

All I keep hearing is validate, validate, validate. doesn't that mean sit there like a little b!tch and take the blame for everything? We don't have to leave our spines behind while we have this talk with them?

I know almost everything she throws is going to have a very valid rebuttal, but where do i draw the line?

Last edited by tbart01; 03/27/10 03:30 PM.

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