It sucks that when divorce and being unfaithful is the question at hand people can come up with 20 to 50 different people as examples. And they all happen to be celebrities, hollywood stars... Yet they don't talk about people that over come the adversity in their marriages. These "stars" aren't people who should be followed at all for examples. If it wasn't in your husbands nature to not be faithful and commited why did he ever make his vows and promise his life to you? Its a cop-out its bs. Plain and simple it is sin.

If things had suddenly changed in him and he decided to come and commit to you. Would you be able to forgive all that has been done? Can you let go all the anger and hurt that has been caused? I think these are the questions you should be asking yourself. I'm not an expert but I know in my sitch that if my wife did a complete 180 and came back I can. Nothing she has done has made me stop loving her. I dont care if she has been unfaithful. I made my vows and I will honor them. I will tell her that we are going to work at our marriage but it will be a NEW marriage. A new relationship, because honestly I dont want my old one back. I know that my family is worth it. I know my son and daughter deserve a whole family and I am patient and faithful enough in God that things will be made right. I cannot say she will come back but I know I will be a better man because of this. Because I'm not wallowing in pain I am being proactive as a father and even as a husband, even if it is one sided. The thing that sucks is that she knows I'm here and waiting. I think she would know that even if I never told her.

Just do you meg. take care of yourself. it is all you can do.

Lead your heart Meg, don't follow it.
The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? Jeremiah 17:9

Know that what you do put everything into it and you'll become a better you.

Aces....

I like all this empty space because i can now type out things that are important.

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D7 S2 starting swimming lessons on 3/30

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