Good answers. Thanks for the mantras. Namaste.

I feel really calm actually. Confident.
I actually had a NAP! Me! the guy who never takes naps in his life!

Just something I also learned so far:

How valuable it has been not been a douchebag to her family during this 12 years of relationship. It has paid. They trust me. They've offered me support, etc. Of course, I won't treat them as my friends right now but they're making it easier for me to go through this.

Last edited by Fracesc; 03/27/10 02:39 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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