H texted me last night and we spoke for a couple of hours. It was a good conversation. We talked about his A. I told him that he was so much better and stronger than that. We discussed how it was like an addiction..he agreed completely. We spoke about her leaving and that he is very happy about this..he was disappointed that I wasn't happier. I told him that I felt like she was again holding out the olive branch with a fat carrot dangling from it. I have mixed feelings. He is so rational at times..so normal. I wish him being normal was the norm. I guess this is a good start though. That gut feeling of him still seeing OW is gone.
