He sat and listened to me (I think); or maybe it went in one ear and out the other. Who knows at this point. I finally said what I have been holding back and it felt good. I then told him I had a call to get on and said that if he wanted to talk at some point, I may be open to that, but that I had to go and goodbye. He said bye. He called me back recently and I did not answer.
DU,
This was very good.
I want to caution you though. It is highly possible that you will hear this stuff come back at you in a negative way. Prepare for that so that you can just let it go if it happens.
I am very glad that you spoke with your lawyer.
I know this is scary stuff and having any sort of grounding throughout is very important.
Have a good weekend sweetie. It is gorgeous here today…
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
Who knows at this point. I finally said what I have been holding back and it felt good. I then told him I had a call to get on and said that if he wanted to talk at some point, I may be open to that, but that I had to go and goodbye. He said bye. He called me back recently and I did not answer. 
