I've busied myself as far as possible today, and am trying to steel myself for having to attend a wedding reception this evening, which will be difficult as my own was only 7 months ago.
Does anyone out there have anymore advice on what I can do in essentially the situation where my W is in love with OM and I moved out 2 months ago when she asked me to? No kids, so no contact really. The only remaining issue between us is some money she owes me and the legal aspects of divorce which will be easy as we have no shared financial assets of note. I'm doing my best to GAL. I don't know how else to proceed, I don't think she will be open to any suggestions until the OM is firmly off the radar. I've exposed their behaviour at work (I work with the OM) and to her family. He was single until they started to have a public relationship 2 weeks after the bomb.
Should I include dating in my GAL? I couldn't handle a relationship, but wonder if going out on dates would help me with distancing myself, or give the WAW some food for thought.
Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.
