Since Dec I have seen some reconnecting. He is now in contact with my brother again. He speaks to them regularly by phone, text and visits. B/SIL have told H OW is not welcome. SIL says H always looks depressed. He cries poverty all the time, which they have told him is all his own doing. H has also reconnected with S12 after 3/4 months of NC. H asks regualry about D, pets, home and me.
I agree with you all that OW is looking for a father figure. If this is the case and they are both meeting each others needs, how does it ever come to an end? OW is very needy and clingy and is feeding the ego of H.
Sorry, so many questions. I am a bit down today. I am doing really well staying detached. The spewing doesn't afect me now and we (me and the kids) usually laugh it off and ignore. I think it may be because I learned yesterday that my friends H has just left for a younger model 2 weeks ago. What is wrong with all these men???
Thanks for your replies Mandyloo. Sorry if I brought back sad times for you.
