Good job on not feeding into the trap...I don't know what some of the others would say, but I think you should have watched the movie w/ her...
I did some of the same things- I dont know if they would have helped...one night after a bad IC session w/ W I ran an errand and was going to GAL...she called and asked if I wanted to watch TV w/ her- I declined...it's strange b/c you still have to consider your 180s
There may be no right answer here...just toy around w/ some of those situations and see what happens, the results are what you need to monitor.
