It's tough to discern who is able to help and who will sit on their hands...my friends did the same thing- all supporting indiv. happiness over responsibilities and obligations- or he basic right thing to do.
I wish none of this on anyone, but perhaps one day they may wear our shoes and understand these feelings...
I think for now, positive and upbeat- def focus on being the best mom possible...perhaps a few truth darts here and there...I would possibly make a list of potential ones and hone them w/ others on the board so you will know what to use and when to use them
