My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

I am with Lola. I was also burned by H saying he wanted to come home out of the blue. It didn't work. After two weeks he moved back out not because I hadn't changed, he said over and over how I had changed, but it made him feel guilty because he hadn't changed and was still only wanting OW. DR also talks about the overnight turn around and to be careful because it could turn back around just as quickly.

I say just wait a little longer. See if things emotionally continue to get closer and closer. I am not saying wait for forever, but as you know H is on a roller coaster ride. Make sure there isn't a huge down on its way that hits right when he comes home just to have him leave again.