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Oh Hun hope you feel better soon, all this can really be the pits at times and being ill on top just makes it worse. Wish I was round the corner to give you a break (())


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I'm at my wits end. It hought I was in piecing but H is not on board the way I though he was. I'm very depressed this morning and feel like giving up. THe pain is too great.


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I am sorry that things are not going so well but I really think you should step back from it all and give him some space. He must be feeling some sort of pressure that he can not deal with and is taking it out on you.
It is not your fault.

Are you still making passover dinner? Why don't you start working on that.

I hope the rest of the weekend is better.


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Hope4Luv,
Hey Lady been there. Just a little bump. Take a breath and don't let it affect your Attitude around him. I know it sounds strange but I am finding out the more you let go the more they seem to come back to you.

Tomorrow is another day

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H4L, sorry to read that you're feeling so rotten. Get better soon! You know that being sick is affecting your outlook right?

Let the dust settle. One day at a time. You don't have to decide if you're piecing today. big hugs.


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H actually did come over and so did my parents. My parents spent most of their time with S, and H took care of me! WTF?!


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The roller coaster continues. Hope you get a chance to breathe at some point H4L smile


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Stop trying to predict and guess what's going on if you can. You are turning out to be WRONG a lot of the time and wasting your energy. I'm glad some people came through on helping you out this weekend. Being sick does NOT help PMA. Curious to hear what H taking care of you looks like these days. Crazy times in piecing world. Hope you get well soon.

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It felt so good to have him here and taking care of me. I miss him so much. Now it's even more depressing that we aren't together because I got a taste of not being so alone and I want more.

Like I said, I think this isn't going anywhere. I wish it were.


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h4l said: I miss him so much. Now it's even more depressing that we aren't together because I got a taste of not being so alone and I want more.



Yeah. Getting a glimpse of what was and what could once again be hurts.

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