I am so pleased I am not part of ex's life, I wouldnt want to live the life he is living with his wifey. Apparently wifey found out that her friends daughter (remember the old friend of hers that was her matron of honour at the wedding), well her daughter is doing cleaning duties for ex's old aunt. remember also that ex and wifey turned their backs on old aunt way back last october, done no shopping, cleaning or anything for the old girl. well on finding out that old friends daughter is doing the cleaning, wifey as been round to the old friends and they had a show down,all because she hadnt been told of the current situation, and they are friends no more, as if it is her business who does what for aunt, she didnt want to do it and never intended to, they left aunt abondoned at 84 years of age, housebound and disabled. Good job aunt has friends that have rallied round to help, old friend also informed her that I do the shopping online for aunt, and another friend collects her money and pays her bills. wifey was not a happy bunny, and no doubt her old friend told her a few more home truths like about the money they have robbed aunt out of. I just am so glad I am out of all this chaos, because to me wifey sounds just as crazy as what ex is, its true misery loves company. I also wonder if this is why the old place as suddenly sold, maybe her family have jumped in to buy it so that they can repay some of their debts, I do know that wifeys brother offered to buy it some time since for a reduced value, and it was turned down, we will see, but this is getting one hell of a show to sit back and watch, so long as they leave myself and son out of it all, could it be true that what goes around comes around,, mmmmmm I wonder