SCH & kissak thanks for stopping by my tread.

I think that you're right, you can't do damage by validating. I find it maddening at times to be saying "I understand" when I know that he is totally "out to lunch".

I observed that validating seems to calm him and when I disagree he goes into defensive/offensive mode. So lets keep validating smile

Last edited by Mila; 03/27/10 08:02 AM.
M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO