She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[tbart01]

Here's another question. When I get home and we finally have our talk, she's going to bring up finances. She's going to blame me for the fact that we're not where she'd like to be financialy. We live well, have allot of things, but savings is scarce.

She's brought up money to others and she blames me. Last time I checked everything we have is in both our names, so obviously we both bought the stuff. Unfortunately, things have come up that we've had to use savings for. Her self employment went under, she's been fired three times.

Obviously where we're at or not at financialy isn't all my fault. My question would be, how do you validate that one when she brings it up?