I haven't caught up on your sitch but have you confronted him with the fact that you know? You may not be able to force him to leave but you can confront him and make sure he knows that you are not going to tolerate crap behavior.
I 2nd that. How long have you known about the affair luvless? are you applying the 24 hour rule? I know it's hard to see your H having an affair but I'm dealing with that too. Stay strong keep the faith and think it over. I know it hurts badly. But just remember 1st corinthians 13.
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
