How to approach W about OM

[Allen A]

It doesn't sound like her dad is in a hurry to have her move out.

Just keep up the work you're doin.. you can't rush the process or you will just keep pushing it BACK... each act of pursuit puts you seven steps back to the ONE you got forward the day before...

Or a better way to put it

AVOIDING PURSUIT is SEVEN TIMES more IMPORTANT than a LOVING ACT

GOT that?

I am gonna write it again

AVOIDING PURSUIT is SEVEN TIMES more IMPORTANT than a LOVING ACT

You need to control yourself... control over yourself, is how you influence HER.