Doc, Naej, and DB Friends, I've decided to not panic about my W's sleeping at her dance friend's place weekly, and will change my approach. In the past I would have moved into the guest bedroom, reduced my contact with my W, and put more effort into GAL. I've decided (thanks Naej, Doc, Jak, and Matilda) to hold my ground, tolerate the uncertainty, and slept last night in the main bedroom. My W returned from a night out dancing, and slept next to me and cuddled.
We had a good lesson and last night at the Hustle Formation group. The new moves are so cool and fun. My W and I are talking about how to dress for the performance. I may look for some white pants, and a 70's type shirt.
CL
Good start Cl. Baby steps buddy
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
