mb, I think you handled the conversation well. IMO the exact words that you use are NOT going to make a difference, so please don't feel like your M hangs on your exact wording. Your H is making bad choices here, but they are HIS choices. You need to continue keeping the focus on yourself, the children, and what YOU can control.

Please think about making some plans for the weekend. Something that would feel good.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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