I spent a week angry, then hit the wall emotionally. I'm burned out on the heavy emotions. I'm still not going to file for her. I won't put my name on a document saying I don't want to be married to my W.

Funny thing, I sent a link to her to a site showing motorcycles and sidecars. She always really liked that stuff and not really caring what she thought I just sent it. I didn't expect a reply at all, but she called me to say thanks. She was chipper and sweet. I didn't really take much from it, but after her tirade and then ignoring me for over a week (not that I tried to get her attention) I thought her tone was odd.

I also met someone online. It's not likely to develop into anything as she's a LOT younger (21) and I'm not ready for anything like that. But it's nice to "click" w/ someone new.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)