Cuz I'm a man with a plan. Unfortunately, Saturday will be a bust. I'm busy all day and going out for my birthday with the fam.
Step 1. Clean garage. Setup space to receive boxes. - Complete Step 2. Locate packing supplies (boxes, tape, etc) - In progress (going to buy boxes to speed this process along) Step 3. Pack and move belongings to garage - In progress Step 4. Inform the WAS - Before next Sunday
It won't even be ready, but I want to wait until after my B-day to inform her. If my B-day passes, as I think it will, it will only give me more packing fuel. However, I want to do it before next weekend. Next Sunday is Easter and will probably be held at her grandma's house. Her grandma freakin' loves me, because of all the work I do on her house projects. I'm sure she doesn't know what is going on. It might be d*ckish, but I'd like to add the extra stress of my detachment on top of having to explain where I am and why I'm not there.
Is it wrong to feel that way?
Then again, she is so conflict adverse, she will probably not go. All her sisters love me and it might get weepy and emotional.
Which brings up a question I'm curious about. Has anyone with a WAS been asked to attend family functions to make things appear normal?
