These talks between us mostly start with my H telling me that we just need to move on and that divorce is the only answer. And since my OD 2 weeks ago, he has admittly said that he is 100% done, which he didn't before.

The convo last night started with me bringing up our living arrangments and my thought on us sharing the house. Of course he tried to turn it to the D talk. Other than what I said above, I left the room.

I think the main thing I would like to get accross to him when we have a convo is that I'm not done, and that I would like to work it out.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10