Thanks Jasper, appreciate it. I know I am getting better at this - it's babysteps though. It's coming up to 3months since the Bomb & separation, and most of the time it just feels as surreal as it ever. Am sure most people here relate.
A practical question: many of WAH's friends (who are MY friends also but probably at the end of the day are more his) are getting in touch via email and skype asking how I am doing. While I think they are shocked by what WAH is doing, I'm afraid many of them are taking a "philosophical" stance (which is an intellectual way of fence-sitting, I think.).
What do I tell them? I can tell them I am looking after me and baby etc and that I'm a bit over talking about things..I think asking them to protest the A and do what they can to help WAH address our M, is not going to wash with these guys...
