I agree. But that is how he is acting. All family and friends tell me that he will regret it and be miserable. I didn't believe that at first. For as much as he was going to the bars, and hanging out with old friends plus OW. I took it as he was enjoying himself. Which I'm sure he was to some extent but at first I was pursing and begging. But now I realize, that one day he will miss me, and at our age, that kind of freedom is not worth it.

I am feeling a little down tongight, probably because of the weekend and nothing to do. But I have no desire to call or text him or check-up on him, which has been freedom for me.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10