Lolas quote is excellent I agree. I am very hesitant to ask him to move back in. I still think I will tell him he can move back but it has to be HIS decision not mine. I don't think we are going to have a conversation that is relationship changing....especially with the ow around. Pretty sure he is still pursuing her. Even though his mom and brother both think he is being foolish. This is a roller coaster I have been on this ride with him before. Each time he comes home and doesn't fully give up the relationship with the ow. So how could we move forward in our relationship???? He really needs to make the decision. I can't....
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
