When I was telling my friend about last nights convo with my H. She said "He want's his freedom, and he wants it yesterday". I think she hit it right on the money.
Everyone wants to be free from the pressures of life, but Divorce is NOT going to do that.
Alimony Child Support Part Time Parenting Negotiating Schedules with x-wife Losing friends and/or family who shame him Household maintenance Insurance and other finances
He has to deal with these things if he divorces AND he still has to deal with
Work Balancing a chequebook Rent Health care
Divorcing does not take away life's challenges, it just adds more for the most part.
The freedom he wants left when he turned 21 and became a legal adult... And despite how he feels right now, divorce is NOT going to make him seventeen again.
