I know people on this site that have been baby stepping for over two years. They could have baby stepped from California to New York...
Even if she tells him she wants him to come home, it is an easy recovery if he balks or says no. (which I explained) It isn't weak if she does it and knows how to immediately back off or say ok if he says no or balks..
If he does say no, THEN it would be a perfect time for her to turn a 180 and leave him alone and let him come to her.
Remember.. HE TOLD HER that he would probably come home if she told him to. This is about seeing if this could be that baby step and seeing if what he said was true. This is a ONE TIME opeining for her and for him. She should never ask again. Never ask twice.
