So those of you who have gone through it, what's it like. Is it a lot of arguing? Is it he said, she said stuff?
CTH, No arguing in my M sessions, just constant tension/stress. A good Mediator will set the tone and keep things relatively calm. And, as I've said before on my thread, since you're always in the same room, face-to-face (unlike L-to-L cases), all the toxic pain and baggage that got you to this point just hangs in the air constantly. I found it much more stressful than I anticipated. Cie la vie is spot on with this:
Originally Posted By: Cie la vie
All of our sitch's are different as are the personalities involved and your results may vary. As you have heard time and time again, hope for the best but expect the worst.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
