I think I have grown numb to her insensitivity at this point. I told a female coworker familiar with my sitch about this and she felt the same way you do.
As far as reacting to it toward my W. Not going to happen. She is not going to get the pleasure of knowing that anything she does may get to me or not.
Funny thing is she asked me about whether or not she should change her name or not at our last mediation session and I told her I didn't care either way. My co-worker firmly believes that my NC is definitely getting to her. That wasn't why I went dark but I guess it is or could be a byproduct.
Anyway, have a nice weekend and thanks for the support.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)