Needing to vent...didn't have time this morning to check to see if H had deposited the usual amount of money. He called telling me he brought the dog home from the vet and wanted to know what the kids plans were this weekend etc. All nice and cheerful and so was I.

I just get done checking the bank and he deposited $150 less than normal. For those following my thread, a couple of weeks ago, I had mentioned wanting to talk to H about how this divorce is going to affect our finances and I decided not to. WHY can he not call me and forewarn me about this??? What is he doing with ALL of his money? It is not paying his hot rod and mc payments...they are still past due balances.

I WANT to call him tomorrow and ask if we can meet and talk but I just don't know. I have an appt with my L on Monday...maybe I should wait and let her handle it but how long does that take?


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing